Why are guys nervous before girls or women? Its because girls have something they want, for that matter anything you Want and someone else can give it to you...makes you nervous. Because There's nothing standing between you getting it but you yourself. But what if i know and feel that it belongs to me? That its going to be mine come what may. I won't grovel or try extra hard...i just know that i have to be Me all the way and by being Me i Will get what i want."